portfolio-magic-pheonixI am Sir Magic and I am what one would call a “Lifestyle Dominant.” I began my journey as a apprentice Dominant years ago under Sir Geoffrey Blaine, then of “House Blaine of Boston.” I was 17 when I was accepted by Sir Blaine at great risk to him and his House; the reason is self evident. I can say with great pride I did not disappoint him and if he were alive today I would hope he would take pride in who I have become, not only as a man, but a Dom and what is now called today a Master. To many of us Lifestylers, the title of Master is earned not taken. It used to be bestowed in general upon one who, by their own local community standards, had attained a level competency, correctness and respect. As with all things, in time they change and now any moron and every wannabe claims the title. This is not some weekend bedroom game I play. This is what I live, I like, I love. I was born to be in control, not only of another but first of myself. I’m in control because I am, not because I “need” to be.BDSM Suspension

 

This is the difference between a Dominant and a control freak. A Dominant is in control of themselves first and by extension the world around them within reason. We have no problem letting others lead when necessary, whereas a control freak can’t let go. Since they can’t control themselves, they must control everything around them.

 

BDSM is about many things. For me it is Dominance / submission or Master /slave relationships. For you, it will be about what you need, want or desire. From these pages, take what works for you and throw away the rest. As you walk your path remember to ask one question:

“I am I hurting anyone?”

 

Sometimes the road gets cloudy and this simple test will help you find your way.

Articles and Essays

In this audio broadcast, Magic talks about defining yourself as a Dom and what works for you and what doesn’t. Turn up your speakers, sit back, relax and listen.
During one of his meditations, Magic had an epiphany regarding the fundamental nature of TPE Dom/sub relationships and the built in flaw at their core. A controversial essay and truth many in the online BDSM world may not welcome.
Many people who have entered the scene within the last couple of years really have no idea of what constitutes Basic Protocols nor what they specifically are. Sir Magic shares with you what some of them are and what they mean. Please remember, every scene is different and what is said here may not apply to your local scene.
So you want to call yourself a slave ?
Sir Magic shares his thoughts on the what it means to be a “slave” in the pure sense of the term within the BDSM community. Here he delves into the basic kinds of slaves vs subs, be you Domestic, Business or Sexual and even gives a hint of where he stands on it all.
A Matter of personal Style
Every Dominant has his or her own Style of Domination. In this serious yet Erotic essay, read about Sir Magic’s own personal style and what he demands of his his sexual submissives or slaves. Wonder what it would be like to be owned by him ? This is but a taste – and the tip of the iceberg.
The D/s Lessons I have Learned
In the 18 years Sir Magic has been involved in D/s he has learned many lessons. Here, in this first part of a several part series, Sir Magic talks about the “Greatest gift” a Dominant could ever receive from a sub.
MORE D/s Lessons I have Learned
Sir Magic shares his thoughts on the various levels and developmental stages a Dominant goes through as they walk this path. Within this essay, Sir Magic makes a clear distinction between “The Player”, “The Lifestyler”, “24/7 D/s fantasy” and “24/7 D/s reality”.
I knew him before they called him Sir Magic
It been over 25 years since Sir Magic has seen one of his earliest loves & technically his first “collard” submissive. As fate would have it she stumbled across Magic’s World, and was reunited with an old friend. In this essay / confession she talks about love , slut-dom, the lies women tell themselves & Sir Magic, in those years before he became “the darkangel”.
With great power comes even greater Responsibilities
Sir Magic discusses the issue of being a caring dominant and how it does not make you a whimp. All dominants have a basic responsibility which comes with their “Top” position. If you’re a submissive and you are seeking to understand what your new found feelings entail, this is a good place to start, but defiantly not the last or only word.
Defining your Dominance
Sir Magic discusses the path to defining what you’re about as a Dominant in Magic’s World’s first audio broadcast.
Primal Forces – 6 Human needs
Magic discusses a key tenant of Human Needs Psychology (HNP), The six Primal human needs, how they govern our lives, relationships and control our destiny.
 

BDSM Books / Items

 

Stories

Marnie’s Story
Another of Sir Magic’s true life adventures. Western society often prevents people from expressing who they are sexually. In this tale, read how Marnie learns the joys of finding the “Slut” within and her own personal path to inner peace.
Kathy’s Story
Ever dream of bondage? Take a moment and read about how Sir Magic introduced Kathy to the sensual concept.
Victoria’s Secret
A true story about a once long ago love of Sir Magic. It is a wonderful erotic bondage tale of the submission of a professional women’s (lawyer) heart and soul to her Dominant.